Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Hoping others understand me..

Hoping others understand you..

It always happen to me.
And I'm always get frustrated then..
Because usually no body really bother about my feelings !

Urgh..

People..
There's nothing worth for me to hope for their attention.

Me..
But why you keep looking from them?

Allah..
Without telling.. You know what exactly what I feel.

But dear me,
People not God. they don't really know what you feel..
You have to explain and justify your feeling.
They actually also have their own problems and difficulties..
And perhaps, it's me had done the same thing to other..

Astaghfirullah..

So what u give, u get back?

To improve self
1. Explain what u feel .. explain clear voice.. not yelling or while crying..
(emotional is optional, and let be wise to be focus on finding solution.. not really the feelings.. Let Allah fix your feeling.. =)

2. Blame no one
(Improve your self and other.. let make others be good, and Allah will help you feel better ^_^)

3. Bukan menjadi orang yang dihargai, tetapi jadilah orang yang berharga..
(Pujian itu ujian, Ujian itu Nikmat, Nikmat itu Ujian..)

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Thinking of study abroad

It has been almost two years and 5 months I'm being an employee , and that also means the duration of my "rehat" I have took..

Deep in my heart, I want to further my study..
But.. what makes me taking so long time to decide..? why I'm taking a long time for rehat time??

Usually before end of our degree, our friends and juniors will ask what our future plan..
As Bachelor accounting students, I'll happily will answer.. I'm planning to take ACCA (with balance 5 papers more) :D

and many more answer la i had gave :P
-Working,
- Support my younger sisters and brothers education,
- Getting married, become wife and mum..

But..
After these while..
What I have done is working..
Which I felt I'm so struggling to be enthusiasm in it..
huh? weird?

Now I realise..
I think my passion is in education line.. (I think :p)

So.. to be fit in education line, I think it is better for me to have Master..
As ACCA was in my dream once upon a time, I did asked my senior about her opinion on ACCA,
(Actually she was done taking ACCA) - But her suggestion for me is taking Master of Accounting..

Currently in process to apply master.. if ACCA possible to apply, I also will apply. just apply first then if get the offer letter, I will discuss back with my senior and seek advise from my lecturer ke.. (After two years not meet them.. :P)

Wallahu'alam..

I'm writing this post so that I want to see the progress on my effort and future planning..
as previously I'm not really check list on my future planning, so hope this as one of good method to monitor my "planning" ^_^

Wassalam..

Ps: Universities that has been offered loan by Mara

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Tips Pertahanan Diri Untuk Wanita

Dari Blog : http://blogtokwan.blogspot.com/2012/01/tips-pertahanan-diri-untuk-wanita.html

Tips Pertahanan Diri Untuk Wanita

Apabila penyerang mula menyerang anda sila kehadapankan sedikit kaki kanan anda dan mulai memasang kuda2 atau memperkukuhkan kaki terutama betis dan paha anda. Dalam erti kata lain memperkukuh hentaman dari penyerang.

Bongkokkan badan sedaya mungkin agar penyerang tidak dapat memegang bahu atau kepala anda dan dalam masa yang sama perkukuhkan penumbuk kebahagian dada anda.

Kemudian lonjakkan kepala anda agar terkena bahagian dagu penyerang. Ini hendaklah dilakukan dengan pantas agar dia tidak sempat memeluk anda.

Selepas menyerang bahagian dagu penyerang segeralah menggunakan lutut kanan atau kiri (yang mana sempat) untuk menghentak bahagian sulit penyerang. Ingat...hentakan mestilah kuat jika penyerang terlalu tinggu maka gunakan sedikit lompatan untuk menambah upaya serangan.

Biasanya apabila terkena hentakan kuat dibahagian sulit, penyerang akan membongkokkan sedikit badannya bagi mengurangi rasa sakit. Dimasa ini gunakan siku untuk menghentam bahagian belakang penyerang. Jika siku anda tidak cukup kuat anda boleh menambah kekuatan dengan membuat lompatan dan pada masa yang sama menghentak belakngnya dengan siku (lompat dan hentak). Kaedah ini sebenarnya kuasa hentakan ditambah dengan berat badan yang ada pada anda.

Pukulan seterusnya ialah menyerang bahagian kepala dengan lutut dan menampar kuat2 bahagian telinga penyerang. Gunakan tenaga semua otot2 untuk penyerangan tersebut, dan jangan mengharapkan cuma otot2 lutut dengan tangan sahaja yang menyerang. Tenaga tambahan anda boleh dapatkan dari pinggang. So...gerakkan pinggang agar tenaga lebih dapat anda curahkan kepada penyerang.

Apabila penyerang terjatuh atau lost balance inilah peluang anda untuk menyerang dengan menggunakan tumit kaki atau tumit kasut ke bahagian tulang rusuk penyerang tersebut.

Selagi mana penyerang masih menggelupor selagi itulah anda harus serang dia dengan serangan yang bertubi2 dibahagian tulang rusuk. Tapi ingat...anda mungkin memerlukan pertolongan orang lain untuk memberkas penyerang yang cuba menyerang anda itu.

Tapi jika tiada siapa2 berhampiran anda untuk membantu anda memberkas penyerang ini, cukuplah sekadar lari meninggalkan penyerang tersebut. Atau dengan kata lain terserah kepada anda apa nak buat.

Salam Ukhuwah..~

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Muslimah~This her way :)

I am a Muslim woman
Feel free to ask me why
When I walk,
I walk with dignity
When I speak
I do not lie

I am a Muslim woman
Not all of me you'll see
But what you should appreciate
Is that the choice I make is free

I'm not plagued with depression
I'm neither cheated nor abused
I don't envy other women
And I'm certainly not confused

Note, I speak perfect English
Et un petit peu de Francais aussi
I'm majoring in Linguistics
So you need not speak slowly

I run my own small business
Every cent I earn is mine
I drive my Chevy to school & work
And no, that's not a crime!

You often stare as I walk by
You don't understand my veil
But peace and power I have found
As I am equal to any male!

I am a Muslim woman
So please don't pity me
For God has guided me to truth
And now I'm finally free!

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Time Management for Muslims and Muslimas

Use Your Time Wisely

Whether you currently work full-time, part-time or not at all, you have a certain amount of time each day to maximize. Approach your time like you would a financial budget by allocating time to different aspects of your life. Categorize these into groupings such as work, studying, blogging, networking, reading, exercising or volunteering and then prioritize (number-one through whatever). From there, you can decide how much time each week should be dedicated to each based on how you have them prioritized. Sunday is always a good day to schedule your week out to make sure you give the proper amount of time to everything

Rafik Beekun, theIslamicworkplace.com

I am always amazed by how time challenged Muslims are–whether as a student, a businessman or businesswoman, or a homemaker. Time management can be daunting as you seek to balance your responsibilities for this dunya and your responsibilities for akheera. Staying on target can get easily swept aside if you do not manage your time carefully.

In Islam, wasting time is discouraged. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “God said, ‘The offspring of Adam abuse time, (even though) I am Time.’” In Surah 103, “The flight of time”, Allah in the Qur’an states, “By the decline of Time, indeed humankind is in a condition of utter loss–except for those who believe and do righteous deeds–and exhort one another to uphold the truth, and exhort one another to persevere in faith with patience.“

Ibn Abbas narrated that Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) said: “There are two blessings which many people lose: (They are) health and free time for doing good.” (Bukhari 8/421). The Prophet (s) used to make the following du’a,
“O Allah! Make life a means for every dimension of goodness.”

One very moving hadith is related by Ibn-Abbas; the Prophet (s) said, “Grab five things before five others: your youth before your decrepitude, your health before your illness, your wealth before your poverty, your leisure before your work, and your life before your death.” [al-Hakim in al-Mustadrak]

Stephen Covey’s time management matrix is a useful tool to manage your time. It centers on two factors: importance and urgency. Please view the video for more explanation on how prioritize your time.

I have read many time management books and watched numerous videos on this topic. May I suggest that you watch my video on time management (part of my Islamic Management course). A short and concise list of tips of managing your time can also be found here.

Here is a very informative khutbah on Time Managment by Muhammad Al Shareef.

Time Management – Muhammad Al Shareef Part 1/6

Time Management – Muhammad Al Shareef Part 2/6

Time Management – Muhammad Al Shareef Part 3/6

Time Management – Muhammad Al Shareef Part 4/6

Time Management – Muhammad Al Shareef Part 5/6

Time Management – Muhammad Al Shareef Part 6/6

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Seerah & Productivity :)

BEING PATIENT

Khabbab bin Al-Aratt once urged the Messenger (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam)to call upon Allâh (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala) to shield him against the adversities he was suffering at the hand of the polytheists. The Prophet’s remarked that it was incumbent upon a believer to undergo the trials of life as much as he could, fearing nobody except Allâh until the religion was established, which would surely happen.

Let’s face it, many Muslims today want quick answers to all our problems – we want quick wins to solve the ummah’s issues, and we don’t want to sacrifice our comforts. Why are we apathetic towards our ummah, or complaining to make all our problems go?

Victory and success needs patience; patience to be productive and active regardless of the odds; patience to bear the brunt of what others say and continue to do good and stay firm on Allah’s path; patience to see things through till the end until peace and security prevails.

So let us roll up our sleeves and be ready to work for the ummah and for the akhirah..

From : productivemuslim.com